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Boys and Bestfriends... When should they MEET???

Here's the scenario......you met a guy and you both really like each other...you begin to talk and more and more you began to really feeling each others vibes....your always on the phone..you've been on a few dates....Now he wants to meet your friends because they are ALLLLLL you talk about..... you know he would like most of you friends but you have this one particular friend that's pretty critical, especially when it comes to guys....She just always has SOMETHING to say. You dont wanna make him uncomfortable when he's around but you also want to include him in some of the fun things you and your friends do. Then again you guys just started talking and you dont want to jump the gun....meeting friends and parents is a BIG STEP.....so when do you know when it's ok to bring him around?

please comment, thanks :)

Tags: friends, girls, guys, relationships

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Permalink Reply by Sharmon Jarmon! on February 28, 2010 at 12:04pm: First off, You have to be confident in you. Believe it or not although your friends are different from you, your friends still represent some part of your character. Yes as females we all have that one slutty girlfriend, one goofy girlfriend, one shy girlfriend, and one loud and obnoxious girlfriend but they all represent who you are just to the extreme. So as long as you've been real and honest with this guy he won't be turned off or scared away. When you care about somebody the little dumb things like your friends making fun of his haircut shouldn't matter. Because if he's confident in himself he would laugh right back at her and say, "girl that's why your track showing" lol. So the question is, is he confident in himself. If yes, go for it! Let the friends meet. If not, keep hanging out! Is nothing wrong with spending time with a person. You'll know when he's ready. Cause he'll probably keep asking to meet them. Good luck chica ;-); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jehda Mccaa on March 6, 2010 at 9:56am: I feel if he wants to meet them let him and tell ur friend if she wants u to be happy then stop sayin something neg. about every guy u talk to tell her to give them a chance first; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jameliah Salter on March 7, 2010 at 2:19pm: make sure u not downplayin the guy to any of ur friends becuz w/o meeting him they may start not liking him. I'm a crtical friend and my best advice is to warn him that ur friend is 'rude' he should understand; ▶ Reply to This